5th of August 2015

The Mate Preview, Pt. 11: The Agreeableness & Assertiveness Traits (Nice Guys Vs. Assholes)


In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.

In Part 11 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Dr. Miller, and Nils explain how women don’t want only assholes or just nice guys, but they do want men who are tough and assertive to the world but kind and caring to them; a tender defender. These are the agreeable and assertiveness traits, and they go over how to improve and display both of them.


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