23rd of June 2015

Q&A: How Can I Be Vulnerable Without Being Needy Or Whiny?


In this Q&A, Tucker, Dr. Miller, and Nils explain how most men misunderstand vulnerability, why your emotional needs as a man are valid (“We’re not just walking penises.”), and why women actually love emotionally open (but not emotionally unstable) men. They also give small steps you can take to start practicing vulnerability in your everyday life.

For more on vulnerability, start by reading Daring Greatly by Dr. Brene Brown , the best book out there on the empirical research. Check out her TED videos first (see below). And go listen to the Helping Joe series where Joe is vulnerable in a non-needy way about problems in his life that many men have but few ever talk.


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The Power Of Vulnerability

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