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5th of June 2014

Check This Out #10: Laughter, social porn and strategic ejaculation

Writing:

Here’s the best advice from a single guy who spent a year interviewing couples
This dude spent a year interviewing happy couples, and found basically exactly what’s in all the research and psych literature. To have a great relationships, you need to be fairly emotionally stable yourself, you have to be able to trust and be with someone you can trust, and you have to make an effort to emotionally connect with your partner. And when you fight, it shouldn’t be about being right, it should be about being resolving the issue and understanding the other person. Yep. His extended AMA is not a bad read either.

Social porn: why people are sharing their sex lives online
Interesting read on porn and how social it’s becoming. The bottom line on this is that humans are sexual beings and this sort of thing is inevitable and good for everyone (basically). The freedom to be who we are is always a good thing.

 

Research:

Why do humans laugh? The evolutionary biology of laughter
Good summary of the evolutionary role of laughter, and how it’s really about signaling and social cohesion. We will cover signaling in great depth on the blog and in the book. Most of the research in that field is relatively new, and virtually no one writing about sex and dating understands it (even though they claim they do, they don’t).

 

Video:

Sex Bytes 101: Strategic ejaculation
Dr. Carin Bondar has a few great video series about sex and the animal kingdom that are very interesting. We’re trying┬áto book her on our podcast, she’s really smart and interesting.

 

Funny:

4 Things I Learned from the Worst Online Dating Profile Ever
This is a fantastic piece, and all guys should read this. Basically, a girl created what in her mind was the worst online dating profile possible for a girl. It’s not as bad as she thinks because she’s a hipster doofus writer, but the article is great. She basically says the worst possible shit to guys, and they keep pursuing her. It’s embarrassing for all men, and a must read, either to laugh or to make sure you’re not like the guys who she interacts with from that profile.

 

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