9th of April 2015

Bad Advice From The Internet: “Just Tell Her How You Feel.”

Why This Is Bad Advice

This is some of the worst advice that women give men. Women say this because most men never give any emotion or match her openness and vulnerability.

Only crazy people over-share with those they first meet or don’t know well.

Being too open with your feelings too early in the relationship signals desperation and low mate value to a woman. It’s a great way to get humiliated.


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The Better Advice

At each stage there is a socially appropriate amount to tell someone how you feel.

It’s best to emotionally follow her lead in disclosing more. This happens piece by piece. She gives a little and you give a little, escalating vulnerability and honesty until there is a high level of trust in the relationship. Then you can talk about your feelings and really connect.


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